if you and your groom are fighting like cats and dogs — or you've just noticed a few more snippy comments lately — don't freak out. You both are under a lot of stress right now, and just because you're not getting along perfectly doesn't mean that you shouldn't be headed to the altar. It just means you need to deal with your stress in a more constructive, less drama-queeny way. Here's some advice for doing this:
• Use your support network. Yes, he's supposed to be there for you whenever you need to vent about your flighty florist or your super-strict boss. But remember that you have friends and family members who are willing to lend an ear, too, so give him a break from being your sounding board and complain to them from time to time. Lean on him, but don't lean so hard he could collapse. (But whatever you do, don't complain to me!)
• Remind yourself of what's most important. Of course you're spending lots of time and money on this wedding, but learn to stop when you find your face turning red or you're about to scream because the cheese course can't include Brie. This day is not about the cheese! It's about the commitment you're making to your fiance and sharing it with your nearest and dearest.
• Get frisky. When people are stressed, they're less likely to be physically affectionate. But remember that a little hanky-panky with your guy can melt stress away and make you feel closer emotionally. Plus, it's fun!
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