<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://chubbyandpretty.blogspot.com/search/label/Points%20to%20Ponder" target="_blank" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_tN4MA4479Tk/TK_5UWN1sBI/AAAAAAAAA-U/o80V-QpsPa4/s1600/points+to+ponder+50.jpg" /></a></div> Saying 'no' to someone else is actually saying 'yes' to yourself.