<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://chubbyandpretty.blogspot.com/search/label/Points%20to%20Ponder" target="_blank" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_tN4MA4479Tk/TK_5E7iDiYI/AAAAAAAAA-Q/ICTieDPdyQA/s1600/points+to+ponder.jpg" /></a></div> Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.